When you live with teenagers, you often hear things that you wish you didn’t. Sometimes as a mom, I hear things that I think are bad, but honestly, they really aren’t. They are simply using a different way of communicating. The rule regarding some of these words in our house is simple: As long as it isn’t disrespectful I’ll typically allow it – but I have to understand it. The biggest catch in deciphering teen speak is understanding that it changes all the time. A phrase may be popular this week and outdated next week. That is enough to drive anyone a little crazy.
So, what exactly is street cred? It’s a shortened term for the phrase street credibility. Having street credibility or cred gives anyone the ability to be accepted in an urban environment. Obtaining street cred usually involves using slang words that are designed for life on the streets but have now become an important part of communication among youth. Even for those who are not familiar with street life.
And parents, if you don’t know already, you need to understand street cred because even the sweetest, smartest, and most articulate children have earned street cred – ask me how I know?
Here are the words and phrases that are popular now (and have been verified for accuracy buy C.J., Tyra, and Jada.)
Blue Dot – unread text message (only for iPhone users)
I don’t even like him anymore, so I’m going to leave him on blue dot.
Cuffed/ Cuffing Season – coupled up
I need to be cuffed the week before Valentine’s Day.
FOMO – fear of missing out
But mom, I don’t care if I have a fever of 102. The FOMO is real when I think about missing this party!
G.O.A.T. – greatest of all time
Without a doubt and as a native Chicagoan, I can say that Michael Jordan is the GOAT of basketball.
Gucci – cool, good
We talked after our argument but now it’s all Gucci.
High Key – with high intensity
I high-key don’t want to go to school tomorrow.
Keep it 100 – keep it real
I’m going to keep it 100 with you right now, I never liked that teacher.
Low Key – with low intensity
Mom, low-key, I was hoping we were having spaghetti for dinner.
Relationship Goals – the relationship everyone wants to have
Drake and Nicki Minaj are relationship goals.
Slide into the DMs – to send a private message
She needs to slide into his DMs to find out what really happened after P.E. class.
Squad Goals – the group of friends everyone wants to have
TBTH – to be totally honest
TBH mom, I don’t really like your hair like that.
Lit – great, popular, eventful
That party was lit because the whole basketball team was there.
Throw Shade – sarcasm, offend.
I’m not trying to throw shade, but he looked a little ratchet at the party.
NOTE: I realize you got two for one in the previous sentence. “Ratchet” means not up to standards.
Leave on Read – text message that hasn’t been replied to
Finessing – working a situation to your favor
I’m going to finesse the system and get an extra free doughnut on National Doughnut Day. NOTE: That would be TODAY, June 2.
Gassed – to support someone and create a whilwird of energy surrounding an issue; hyping someone up
My friends gassed me up about my school presentation and I got an A!
Glow Up – makeover
Kick Back -party; gathering of friends
Tyra is planning a chill kick-back to celebrate her birthday.
EMO – emotional
When I’m having a bad day I only listen to emo music by Drake where he whines about life.
Sauce – style
I have a lot of sauce when I wear those jeans.
Have you heard any interesting words and phrases from the teens you love lately? Please share them because we can defintely use all the street cred we can get.