I can remember it fondly. My three sweet children used to skip through our house chanting “Please and thank you, they’re the magic words…please and thank you, ’cause they’re the magic words.”
Those words were indeed magical and fun. Now that I think about it, I owe a lot to a certain purple dinosaur for introducing that song in our family. Unfortunately, though, as the kids got older, we stopped singing – and sometimes saying – those words at all.
As embasrrasing as it is to admit this, please is typically replaced with a phrase that begins with “Do it.” And thank you, well, do eye rolls count? Confession time: I don’t know when the last time my kids or I wrote thank you notes. I think for them it may have been a kindergarten birthday party, and for me, well, my wedding?
The irony of it all is that we really are thankful and appreciative and happy when those in our circle do something nice for us. We just don’t always show it. And when I write “we,” I’m including myself, because, well, in the midst of life’s ups and downs, I’m not always the picture of please or thank you.
I’ve noticed though, that today in our tech savvy world, when we do show it, we are sending a quick “Thx” via text or Facebook or the ever-more personal Bitmoji.
Somehow, I don’t think this is what my mother had in mind when she taught me etiquette lessons regarding thank you notes years ago. Earlier this year, our family opted to participate in a kindness project. I wrote about it here. If you haven’t read the back-story, just know that by opted, I really mean that I announced to the internet that we were not kind at all. Since then, we began practicing intentional acts of kindness but something was missing.
Recently, we had the opportunity to partner with Basic Invite as we rediscovered the art of writing thank you notes. Handwritten ones. That have envelopes. And can be affixed with a stamp and arrive via the U.S. Postal service.
Disclaimer: This is a sponsored post. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
This was exactly what our family needed to help us say what should have been said a long time ago. Anything but basic, Basic Invite is stationary company known for breathtaking wedding invitations, but they also feature unique and stunning birth announcements, baby shower invitations, first birthday invitations, graduation announcements, and thank you notes.
Basic Invite is one of the few websites that allows customers almost unlimited color options with instant previews online. Once you select a design you can change the color of each element on the card to over 160 different color options so you can make sure the card is exactly how you want it. Speaking of colors, they also have more than 40 different colors of envelopes which can help your invitation or announcement stand out before it is even opened. And best of all – the envelopes are peel and seal so they can be quickly and securely closed without having to lick a single one. Trust me, your tongue will thank you.
If you’d like a sample of your design, Basic Invite allows you the ability to order one so you can see exactly how it will print as well as the outstanding paper quality before placing that order.
One look at their website and we were inspired to do better. So we did. And our thank you notes went a long way. While we didn’t have anything in particular happening this summer with parties or showers or fancy events, we did go on vacation with my parents and cousins to our family homestead in Mississippi. The weekend was fun, full of love and laughter, and considering all of the craziness in the world, the words thank you were a great way to show our appreciation to my parents for orchestrating these memories for us.
And in the end, gratitude wins with warm hearts and overflowing joy for two grandparents who live 1,000 miles from their only grandchildren. Yep. gratitude definitely wins.
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